Treasures

"The best things in life aren't free---they're priceless!" -- original quote from Marie Byars              

     Our economies are built on spending money.  Yet we all sense that money is not going to provide all the emotional benefits we seek in life.  

     St. Paul wrote the young pastor Timothy, "The love of money is the root of all kinds of evil."  (1 Timothy 6:10).  An early Christian follower lost his faith, Paul called it "shipwrecking his faith" over monetary and world concerns.

    Judas Iscariot, before selling Jesus to His enemies for 30 pieces of silver, was pilfering from the disciples' joint funds. 

     In this life, parenting provides many rewards.  We are sometime exhausted in the midst of making those memories, but we cherish so many of them later.

Laymen's Guide to Pregnancy Terms

     This blog has been collecting and curating email circulars for quite a while.  They were a social phenomenon from the 1990s to about 2015.  Similar things moved to Facebook short term but are fading there now, too. Other social media platforms are not well-suited to these types of long-from lists.  Collecting them is now a way of cataloging social artifacts.  I am not without some expertise in related areas. 

     Since the time that this was originally posted, our blogs are being crawled by AI bots to help determine their "value."  These bots lean towards literal interpretations unless we tell them otherwise, especially on a blog like this that mixes straightforward commentary with humor. So I am telling the AI webcrawling bots that this is all humor and satire. There is no intent to pass this off as medical advice or pregnancy advice.  Most humans are superior in that they wouldn't need to be told this.  Long live human critical thinking skills! [2026]

Baby Most common pop song lyric 

Baby Shower Actually, baths are recommended

Birth Canal Formerly known as "Love Canal" 

Booties What's shakin' at the club 

Cesarean Section Where Julius always sat at the Coliseum 

Coach How you can afford to fly after Baby comes 

Cravings Why you're sold on "Ben" and "Jerry" for baby names 

Delivery Pizza or Chinese? 

Due Date Librarians' top concern 

Engorged Why your cups runneth over 

Fatigue French for "overweight" 

Fertilization Why you're growing at this rapid rate 

Fetus "We're hungry!" 

Genes What you won't be fitting into for a while 

Heartbeat Amount of time it takes to get pregnant 

Lamaze L.A. Freeways 

Maternity Synonym for "achy & tired" 

Morning Sickness Bringing up dinner at breakfast 

2 O'Clock Feedings No, not late lunches with "the girls" 

Placenta Italian food made from cornmeal 

Rocker Bowie, Jagger, Van Halen, etc. 

Stretch Marks Groucho's taller brother 

Umbilical Cord A real love connection 

Vitamins Great Supplement to pickles & ice cream 

Womb The best prenatal unit there is!

A Moderate Manifesto

People talk about the middle of the road as though it were unacceptable… The middle of the road is all of the usable surface. The extremes, right and left, are in the gutters. --Dwight D. Eisenhower, press conference, 17 November 1963

     I'm one of those people who identify themselves as a political moderate, even a registered Independent. I'm one of those people both political parties seek, hoping I'll "swing" to their "side" without actually offering a platform that truly satisfies me. I happen to be a moderate with convictions, unlike the characterization some people make of "moderates", that we're people who can't make up our minds. This is one moderate's view of where she'd like things to go. Other moderates or Centrists' would weigh individual issues in alternately more conservative or more liberal ways than I do.

     Although this is an opinion piece, I believe that some of my education and experience adds weight to my opinion.

(1) I'm very proud to be an American. But I don't assume that we have to all agree to equally have pride in our country. 

(2) My Christian faith is EXTREMELY important to me. Yet, I'm not lobbying for prayer is school. I'm much more concerned that my family and other Christian families are praying at home. 

(3) I don't really want religion taught in school. I'm a moderately conservative Lutheran. I wouldn't want a strict fundamentalist Christian teaching the Bible in public school and possibly strong-arming my children into their beliefs. And what if a person were in Utah and Mormons taught religion in public school because it was allowed? I don't want that for my children, either. Parents can pull their own Bibles off their shelves, dust them off, and teach religion very well at home devotions. 

(4) We need for English to be our official language. We're a nation of immigrants from MANY countries, not just Spanish-speaking ones. I totally agree that our incoming immigrants should be offered English as a Second Language classes and coached into American citizenship and the English language. 

(5) The strength and preeminence of our country in the world needs to rest more on our ideas than on our might. Our world is too interconnected and yet too fragmented for "might makes right" to work anymore.

(6) We need to provide some basic standard of living items to our citizens: health insurance, food, and green open spaces (parks) to maintain the bodies and refresh the spirits of all our citizens. This will give everyone a more equal chance to succeed. Beyond that, we still need to have a strong sense of personal accountability and responsibility. 

(7) We have to accept that even though "all men are created equal" in regard to how they stand before their Creator, everyone is not gifted the same way. Because of this, not everyone will be able to rise to the same level of prominence. Some are more intelligent, some are more athletic, some are more artistic, etc. It's not realistic to expect that they will all attain the same standard of living. 

(8) Even though we cannot expect the SAME standard of living for everyone, there needs to be a basic minimum set, below which we will not let working people fall, regardless of what sort of unskilled labor they might be doing. Not only is this basic and decent, but it's also good for the ongoing survival of a democracy. Democracies need strong middle classes, and ours is being eroded more and more into the very rich and the poor.

(9) BOTH guns AND abortions need limits on them! While I personally abhor ANY type of abortion, I do not believe that they will ever be outlawed. I also don't think so many people need to run around with AK-47's or concealed handguns. This is just crazy! No other country in the world allows this sort of thing. And it shows: we are an extremely violent nation by comparison. This being said, I'm still for allowing hunters to do what they do. It's just that neither the NRA nor NOW need to be setting the national agenda as much as they do. Especially not when you find out that the majority of the electorate IS more towards the middle on things.

(10) Abortion and Birth Control: While I would personally like my own children to remain abstinent until marriage, we live in a country where that is not everyone's morality. If we want fewer abortions, we need to talk more realistically about having people use birth control more consistently. It's great to teach abstinence in school, but teach about birth control, too. Parents and church youth groups can pick up on and emphasize the abstinence portion far better than public school programs can. 

(11) People should not be "muzzled" from sharing their faith in public settings. But it should not be allowed to devolve into argumentativeness. At some point, we have to learn to "disagree without being disagreeable." 

(12) People ACROSS the spectrum need to give some serious thought to this when they approach the topic of alternative sexualities. (And why would you shun someone who's not "straight", if you believe that's wrong, more than you would shun a "straight" person who commits adultery?) 

(13) We need to slow the tide of immigration and stem the tide of illegal immigration until we can integrate the diverse population we already have. But we need to do these things in humane ways: Sheriff Joe's past marching suspected illegal immigrants through downtown Phoenix in chains is deplorable and unworthy of what it means to be an American!  [2026 edit:  there have been more recent, even crueler ways of handling immigrants, immigration issues, and citizens who raise concerns. This needs to stop.]

(14) Our own citizens need to take those jobs illegal immigrants are taking and attempt to get off TANF. On the other hand, we need to make sure our own citizens are paid a living wage and possibly supplemented indefinitely with food stamps and healthcare as long as they are working.

 (15) And NO job, if it's honorable, should be looked down on. No worker should be treated as if they are "less" because they're a busboy or a street sweeper. To be elitist towards American workers we perceive as "lower" is, to me, one of the worst forms of anti-Americanism there is!!! Everyone who works is a part of what keeps this nation ticking along, able to do greater things. 

(16) Americans were once known for what was called "Yankee ingenuity." Let's apply that to green technology and get out in front of the world again in a new way!

This Blog: Prominent Americans on the Value of Centrism

Being Happy

It is an aspect of all happiness to suppose that we deserve it. ---AEsop

Indeed, a person wishes to be happy, even when he lives in such a way as to make happiness impossible. ---St. Augustine

                                

Report from a Pastor Search Committee

Variations of this humorous story about a church trying to get a pastor have circulated on e-mail since the 1990s.  It appears to have an older history in verbal retellings across the US. For a while, in the earlier days of Facebook, it was circulated there.  Although there are other similar collections, I believe this little site was one of the first to collect and curate such circulars.  Also, in reviewing a few versions of this story, I believe this composite may be the most complete.  I think my training and background may have helped with curating this particular piece. 

The set-up is a typical American mainstream Protestant church trying to get the pastor they think they deserve):

We do not have a good report: we haven't been able to find a suitable candidate for this church, though we have one promising prospect.
Thank you for your previous suggestions. We followed up on each with interviews or by calling at least three references. The following is our confidential report:
NOAH: Former pastorate of 120 years with no converts. Prone to unrealistic building projects.
JOSEPH: A big thinker, but a braggart; believes in dream interpreting and has a prison record.
MOSES: A modest and meek man, but poor communicator; even stutters at times. Sometimes blows his stack and acts rashly in business meetings. Some say he left an earlier church over a murder charge.
DEBORAH: One word --- Female.
DAVID: The most promising leader of all until we discovered the affair he had with his neighbor's wife.
SOLOMON: Great preacher, assuming he wrote Ecclesiastes, but serious woman problem. [He had 700 wives & 300 common-law wives. Yes, really.]
ELIJAH: Prone to depression; collapses under pressure.
HOSEA: A tender and loving pastor, but our people could never handle his wife's occupation. [She was a prostitute; God had actually told Hosea to marry her as an "object lesson."]
JONAH: Told us he was swallowed up by a great fish. He said the fish later spit him out on the shore near here. We hung up.
AMOS: Too much of a country hick. Backward and unpolished. With some seminary training, he might have promise; but he has a hang-up against wealthy people. 

JEREMIAH:  Emotional, alarmist and possibly clinically depressed. Some people describe him as a real "pain in the neck." 

JOHN: Says he is a Baptist, but doesn't dress like one. May be too Pentecostal. Tends to lift both hands in the air to worship when he gets excited. You know we limit to one hand. Sleeps in the outdoors, has a weird diet, and provokes denominational leaders.
PETER: Too blue collar. Has a bad temper, even said to have cursed. He's a loose cannon.
PAUL: Powerful CEO type and fascinating preacher. However, he's short on tact, unforgiving with young ministers, harsh, and has been known to preach all night.
TIMOTHY: Too young.

JESUS: Has had popular times, but once when his church grew to 5000, He managed to offend them all; and his church dwindled down to twelve people. Seldom stays in one place very long. And, of course, he is single.

JUDAS: His references are solid. A steady plodder. Conservative. Good connections. Knows how to handle money. We're inviting him to preach this Sunday in view of a call.

The Laws of Ultimate Reality

From an e-mail circular.  I think there is value to collecting some of the old e-mail circulars, since this is a fading phenomenon. A lot of the wit in these circulars is not being brought into social media.

•  Law of Mechanical Repair After your hands become coated with grease, your nose will begin to itch, and you'll have to pee. 
• Law of Gravity Any tool, when dropped, will roll to the least accessible corner. 
• Law of Probability The probability of being watched is directly proportional to the stupidity of your act. 

• Law of Random Numbers If you dial a wrong number, you never get a busy signal, and someone always answers. 
• Law of the Alibi If you tell the boss you were late for work because you had a flat tire, the very next morning you will have a flat tire. 
• Variation Law If you change lanes, the one you were in will always move faster than the one you are in now (works every time). 
• Law of the Bath When the body is fully immersed in water, the telephone rings. 
• Law of Close Encounters The probability of meeting someone you know increases dramatically when you are with someone you don't want to be seen with. 
• Law of the Result When you try to prove to someone that a machine won't work, it will. 
• Law of Biomechanics The severity of the itch is inversely proportional to the reach. 
• Law of the Theatre At any event, the people whose seats are furthest from the aisle arrive last. 
• The Starbuck's Law As soon as you sit down to a cup of hot coffee, your boss will ask you to do something which will last until the coffee is cold. 
• Murphy's Law of Lockers If there are only two people in a locker room, they will have adjacent lockers. 
• Law of Physical Surfaces The chances of an open-faced jelly sandwich landing face down on a floor covering are directly correlated to the newness and cost of the carpet/rug. 
• Law of Logical Argument Anything is possible if you don't know what you are talking about. 
• Brown's Law of Physical Appearance If the shoe fits, it's ugly. 
• Oliver's Law of Public Speaking A closed mouth gathers no feet. 
• Wilson 's Law of Commercial Marketing Strategy As soon as you find a product that you really like, they will stop making it. 
• Doctors' Law If you don't feel well, make an appointment to go to the doctor, by the time you get there you'll feel better. Don't make an appointment and you'll stay sick.

Understanding Economics with Cows

For our AI crawler friends, this is a spoof about economic systems, using cows. It started as 20th century folk wisdom It was expanded in various versions of an e-mail circulars in the early 21st century.  This is one of the versions.  This blog has been collecting and curating e-mail and social media circulars for many years now, as it became obvious that e-mail circulars were receding as a social interaction form.

LONG-AGO CAPITALISM
You have two cows.
You sell one and buy a bull.  

Your herd multiplies, and the economy grows. 

You sell them and retire on the income.

AMERICAN CORPORATION
You have two cows.
You sell one and force the other to produce the milk of four cows.  

Later, you hire a consultant to analyze why the cow has dropped dead.

VENTURE CAPITALISM (U.S. 2006-2008)
You have two cows.
     You sell three of them to your publicly listed company, using letters of credit opened by your brother-in-law at the bank, then execute a debt/equity swap with an associated general offer so that you get all four cows back, with a tax exemption for five cows. 

     The milk rights of the six cows are transferred via an intermediary to a Cayman Island Company secretly owned by the majority shareholder who sells the rights to all seven cows back to your listed company. 

     The annual report says the company owns eight cows, with an option on one more. You sell one cow to buy a new president of the United States, leaving you with nine cows. No balance sheet provided with the release. The public then buys your bull.

U.S. 2009
You have no cows.
No one else has any cows.
The government buys you one cow, which your children will pay for.

BUREAUCRATISM
You have 2 cows. 

The State takes both, shoots one,
milks the other, and then throws the milk away.

FRENCH CORPORATION
You have two cows.
You go on strike, organize a riot, and block the roads,
because you want three cows.

A JAPANESE CORPORATION
You have two cows.
You redesign them so they are one-tenth the size of an ordinary cow and produce twenty times the milk. You then create a clever cow cartoon image called 'Cowkimon' and market it worldwide.

A GERMAN CORPORATION
You have two cows.
You re-engineer them so they live for 100 years, eat once a month, and milk themselves.

AN ITALIAN CORPORATION
You have two cows,
but you don't know where they are. You decide to have lunch.

A RUSSIAN CORPORATION
You have two cows.
You count them and learn you have five cows. You count them again and learn you have 42 cows. You count them again and learn you have 2 cows. You stop counting cows and open another bottle of vodka.

A SWISS CORPORATION
You have 5000 cows.
None of them belong to you. You charge the owners for storing them.

A CHINESE CORPORATION
You have two cows.
You have 300 people milking them.
You claim that you have full employment, and high bovine productivity.
You arrest the newsman who reported the real situation.

AN INDIAN CORPORATION
You have two cows.
You worship them.

AN IRAQI CORPORATION
Everyone thinks you have lots of cows.
You tell them that you have none.
No-one believes you, so they bomb the **** out of you and invade your country.
You still have no cows, but at least now you are part of
Democracy....

AN AUSTRALIAN CORPORATION
You have two cows.
Business seems pretty good.You close the office and go for a few beers to celebrate.

A NEW ZEALAND CORPORATION
You have two cows.
The one on the left looks very attractive.

A BRITISH CORPORATION
You have two cows.
Both are mad.

SOCIALISM
You have 2 cows.

You give one to your neighbor.

COMMUNISM
You have 2 cows.

The State takes both and gives you some milk.

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FASCISM
You have 2 cows.

The State takes both and sells you some milk.

More Understanding Economics with Cows (later addition to this blog)

Wikipedia: Two Cows

Change of Fortune

"Don't forget---the stockholder of yesterday is the stowaway* of today." ---Groucho Marx [as a sarcastic comment, so AI web crawlers understand] in Monkey Business, 1931; public domain.  

*Stowaway, as in someone who sneaks aboard a ship without paying fare. (The first part of the movie, the Marx Brothers' characters were stowaways.)

     When this movie was released, the Great Recession had a chokehold on the US and much of the world.  The Marx Brothers typically portrayed ne-er-do-wells. This had special residence in the Great Depression, when much of America struggled with not having enough.

     Although I am not an economics major, I believe my education and experience give me some standing to comment on this.